I married an irish man in 1987 and had 4 children. Been back and forth over the years and my three older children prefer here. My daughter had my first grandchild July 2011 and my second the following year. So looks like my life is here now. I worked in the NYC court system and was laid off June 2011 with cutbacks. Then sandy burned our house to the ground in 2012. So it really was meant to be. My youngest is in college in NY so I don't know what he will do after he finishes. I have family in NY so go back at least once a year.